Love is dumb.
There. I’ve said it. Surely we have better things to do, like look after ourselves and our own. Makes me kind of wish we were like cats, or lions or something, you know: had babies, grew them up, killed animals, ate them, made babies, moved on, died. You don’t see cats getting all emotional because they wanted to share their kibble with the neighbour’s cat and the neighbour’s cat said no. You don’t see cats caring about much at all, actually.
Some people are like that. We can all, if the truth be told, be like that. We’re all selfish, demanding creatures who love salty food and warm beds and someone who shares the couch and lets us do our own things. It’s considered normal, and considered The Way Things Are.
That’s the way it was for me, really. Until some crazy lady did a Rachel Stewart number on me, and helped me when I’d fallen over in the middle of the race.
I don’t know if Rachel Stewart remembers the grade five athletics carnival. I don’t know if the friend she stopped for just before the end of the 100m sprint to help back to her feet again remembers the grade five athletics carnival either, but I do know that those two women, nearly thirty years later, are still friends. She stopped. Rachel Stewart was our fastest runner, and she stopped before the end to help her friend that was down. That’s love. That’s when you know that Rachel Stewart knew what meant more than some poxy ribbon on a pin.
That’s what love is.
She didn’t need to. Nobody needs to do a Rachel. In fact, Rachel Stewart didn’t need to do a Rachel, and when she did it it was Dumb dumb de dumb dumb, and she lost the race.
And once upon a time that crazy woman who did a Rachel on me knew what it meant as well. I drove her crazy. A few times. I probably put her through hell and back a few times as well, and I even did the famous SDCU* on her and decided that I’d stuffed things up so badly I could never ever love anybody again.
We do that. We all do that. We turn to our Rachel Stewarts and give them the finger and then we beat them in the next race and not think about it till it’s too late and we can only hope to God they might forgive us, and then we swear we’re never ever going to race again, poxy ribbon or no.
Tell you what, I’m glad that once upon a time God did a Rachel Stewart number on me. He did all right. And that’s the only reason I’m back lining up for the race at the moment.I’m back there on the old New Norfolk oval staring down the white lines on the grass and eyeing off the sports teacher holding the ribbon, and just a bit worried that that starter gun is a real one.
I’m going to run.
I’m looking at the people who are racing with me. None of us are that great, or that pretty, or that cool any more. And none of us are ever going to make the Olympics.
but together we’re running this race we call life, and this time I know, because I will always remember the ones who stopped for me, that no matter which one of us falls, I’M gonna be the one this time to stop and do a Rachel.
Care to join me?
*Super-dooper cock-up. See the last blog post.
i think no matter what, in the end people need to look out for each other
this…this is real stuff..i needed to see it.
Glad. Bless you : )
Love is dumb…finally walked away from the one I
always stopped to help up but would then finish the race without me……me only defence in not doing it sooner is I now have some great what a d”^%* stories 😉
I feel for you. That’s the other side of the story, isn’t it. I wish you all the best in picking up the pieces Claire.
Very interesting! Love is tough. We all learn that at some points….or many. Looking forward to the next post!
Thanks! Appreciate you reading : )
Love this (but maybe I shouldn’t given your first line :)! I’ve been saying similar things for months now…only not so eloquently.
What a noteworthy chain of reactions was started at that race in 5th grade!
LOL…you can say that again!
This is great!
I was such a bastard a couple of years back to some very lovely people, but thank God I’ve been more of a Rachel Stewart lately then the one that gave her the finger.
Beautiful post and intriguing title. I don’t know about you, but I want to grow to be as “stupid” as possible!
yup, sounds good to me too. Thanks for reading!
very touching. hits the rough spots in life and gives them a chance ti be polished.
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Great post! Hooray for the Rachels in the world! I want to be one too. Thanks for sharing. You Matter! Smiles, Nancy
Hilarious while still having a moral at the end. Great read.
lovely post …thank you.
Ah!!!!The thing called love:)
From your introduction I could never have guessed that your article ended on such a positive note, or that your article was about running! But it caught my eye- and that’s a good thing! Keep on running and loving- after all we are social ‘social animals’ and would be miserable living a life of a cat.
Great post! I enjoyed it very much!
I feel ya girl!
A very thouhtful read. Thank you